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8: Troubleshooting the Mentor Relationship

DOI:

10.1891/9780826106902.0008

Abstract

This chapter explores the importance of risk prevention in mentor relationships, about potential roadblocks for mentors and protégés, and how to manage change in the mentoring experience. Good risk prevention includes agreeing with nurse’s mentors on basic expectations about their goals and outcomes, frequency of contact, roles their mentor can play, expected performance of both partners, and how to address problems if they arise. Studies have reported various types of mentoring relationship problems such as unrealistic expectations, personal and professional mismatches, power and control issues, excessive competitiveness, “cloning”, communication, and dependence. Abuses of power in the mentor relationship occur when there are instances of manipulation, exploitation and excessive demands of loyalty and conformity by the mentor. Frequent, open, and honest communication is the foundation of healthy mentor relationships. The power and magic of mentor relationships are reflected in the achievements, joyful sharing, and professional and life connections between mentoring partners.