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Chapter 15: Stabilizing the Relationship Among Self-States

DOI:

10.1891/9780826106322.0015

Authors

  • Sandra, L. Paulsen
  • Joan, Golston

Abstract

This chapter addresses crises precipitated by problems in the relationships among the patient's internal states. It focuses on increasing awareness of different parts of the self and ultimately creating a more stable sense of self. The chapter describes interventions into instability or crises related to an internal locus of disturbance. An important early-stage approach to increasing patient stability involves the application of ego state therapy's conceptual framework and tools in an effort to reduce conflict among parts of self. A beneficial strategy in the treatment of shame involves approaching the damaged sense of self using object awareness, rather than ego awareness to evoke a tolerably remote, quasi-objective stance. When the locus of an ongoing or acute disturbance in a patient's life is centered in relationships among his or her states, systematically addressing that internal conflict can greatly increase stability.